Ok, I think I have isolated the problem and concluded that something is not compatible with NEC software and whatever was updated in ether Photoshop or Camera Raw. I kept getting strange and mixed results when going through the Windows color management and doing a custom calibration. So I reset everything back to default, recalibrated my monitor through NEC Spectraview to get back to where I started. Then I started changing the color profiles through the monitor to use the factory set internal calibration profiles set during production ( SRGB and Adobe98 ). And found that as long as I switched profiles using the buttons and menu on the front of the display the problem between Photoshop and camera raw was fixed. It was once I changed the profiles through the software interface the problems came back.
So I guess my next step is to contact NEC and report this and see if they can duplicate the bug.